Public speaking is not for everyone.

Unfortunately, there may be a couple of times in your life that you may be asked to voice your thoughts in a public forum. For example, you may be asked to give a toast at a dear friend’s wedding or offer some words of wisdom at a company affair. At times like these, you must do everything possible to conquer the stress or fear that such an event brings.

Here we share some tips on how you can speak in public with strength and grace.

Master your material.

It is not enough that you have memorized your speech. What is more important is that you thoroughly understand the material and the overall theme of your talk. This is especially true when you have to entertain questions after your talk. Mastering your material will give you confidence.

Be familiar with the audience.

You will feel more comfortable if you are acquainted with the audience. Before going to the podium, it might be a good idea to go around the room, exchange a few handshakes, and chat with some members of the audience. This will give you a feel of the room.

Polish your talk.

Don’t lose confidence when you see stammer from time to time. Use this opportunity to polish the sentences that you are about to say. For example, if you are about to say “um,” simply repeat the sentence as if you are emphasizing it.

Use body language.

Words are not enough. Your body language and hand gestures complete the overall package. More often than not, the way you act while talking can transform you into an effective speaker.

Add some humor.

Though not necessary, a humorous phrase or sentence can grab the audience’s attention. So if you find an opportunity to inject some humor into your spiel, do it. Just be sure that your brand of humor is appropriate to your audience.

Don’t control the audience.

Though it may hurt your self-esteem to see members of the audience chatting or sleeping, you have no power over their behavior. Proceed with your talk; don’t mind them. Thinking about them will only ruin your confidence.

Confidence is the key to public speaking.

If you’ve mastered your material, practiced your lines, and showed your personality, your audience will love you!